Wednesday, 30 April 2008

Sometimes i wonder if this relationship is real

I'm in a long distance relationship He hardly calls cos of call costs since we're in different countries. All we do is texts and instant messaging. Most relationships that are long distance they talk a lot but mine is different. Is it real or is it just our own unique way of communicating?

15 comments:

notperfectdotcom said...

maybe the cost of high phone bills is preventing him from calling. Can you call him?
I hear everyone and the momma has access to email these days, you guys can communicate via email too.

Good Luck.
Nice Blog

Nice Anon said...

lol.. He doesnt call or nothing? I don't mean to laugh or anything just seems funny to me. Welcome to blogsville!

WeirdGurl said...

Thanx.
Its been a long time he called. I can call him. Its just that i prefer him calling him (it gives you that feeling he's thinking of you). we communicate through texts and emails a lot. and instant messages with webcams once in a while.

afunto` baby™ said...

His prolly broke or somethin..when i was in relationship my ex he use to call alot then he stopped callin and then started txtin more dat all stopped after awhile and resulted in IM's only...sha dont give up. the dude is prolly broke or somethin..

WeirdGurl said...

yeah I guess so. Its not easy for him though. He's working and schooling and there are bills to pay. We love each other a lot and hoping it works. I guess i'll look past that(the calling thing) though.

Sha said...

hmm LDR is HARD WORK, but surely a fonecall evry now and then should be in place.

yall cn get skpe though, its free isnt it?

AJIKE said...
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AJIKE said...

lol at nice anon!..but err i think he should call up some times now..haba!

but err it might be a unique way i think!

tell him how u feel naaaaaw!

p.s, babes *scratching head*....err this word verification thing out out out..its fraustrating!!!!

Chameleon said...

you guys should get Skype and maybe even Skype phones... its really cheap because the calls are made over the net.

pele... hang in there.

thx for stopping by. xxx

soupasexy said...

long distance r/ship is the hardest thing. am in one and i know how it feels...sorry!

Morountodun said...

I think the key to a long distance relationship is making sure you have a plan for when the long distance part of it will end...

dami said...

not withstanding of the high cost of call.............no good thing comes easy it is a sacrifice he must be willing to do...okay!let him know ....if he really want this relationship to work you...you both have to sacrifice once's in a while (tell him that you would like him to call even if it is a minute in a day or 2)believe me gal the more you talk the more you know appreicate youselves the more......am telling you all these cos i have been there and if you both love your self things get better....(i am so sorry if i tend to give too much advise it is just that i have a passion for relationships)

niyi tabiti said...

I will pray so that he can atleast sarifice some coins for calls because u are important.How are u coping with the coooold!

Ms.O said...

ahhh girl i feelz u...well sha we talk all the time. when we first started. I went and got a long distance plan on my phone. We compromise alot. right now am home in my mums so no long distance phone. so he is ding all the calling. sometimes he 4gets to get phone cards. and we have to talk via messenger. its hard babes. but yea...keep it up.

Nogo said...

Get Skype hunnie - straight up. Lol - Don't mean to laugh I feel you on that pain. Hope you find it's worth it! Good luck! xoxo