Wednesday, 30 April 2008

Hate staying with relatives

Right now i'm on vacation spending it with an Uncle and his family.
First i'm not used to staying with people or relations, and worse of all i'm related to the man not the woman. I think i'll free better or more free if i'm related to the woman. y'all feel me on that.
You know he woman is the boss of the house. Anything i ask my uncle he says ask his wife. I'm like woah!!! is that what marriage is all about? its more like he's scared of her or cannot make decisions on his own. I guess maybe its for peace in his house. Well next time before i visit a relative, i 'll make sure i'm free with their wives if i'm related to the man. I just cant wait to leave. Its not like se's mean or whatever but i just dont feel free with her. I've never even met them before now maybe thats why.

12 comments:

afunto` baby™ said...

Bbs, I feel you ooo..
Im stayin at my relatives at the moment and I don't really like it out here..im use to livi wit my parents or wateva no livin wit extended family..its long jo..

Omosewa said...

LOL, its much better to be the ladys pal...just manage.

Have a nice day:)

Tininu said...

honestly i think we all go through it, it is just onne of those things that happen and you just have to see it through to the end, but dont forget to let the rents know what you going through because they would just assuming that you like it there and they will keep sending you back..

AJIKE said...

hmm, i don't think he is scared of his wife..u know how we women can be sometimes..hmmm he more like respects her i think!!!!

ok am done, commented on all ure posts, hope to read more from you

muah muah!!!

Mr Fresh!! said...

what a mess, i hate situations liek that...im sure teh man is not scared of her, but he just doesnt want problemz


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Charizard said...

I hate it when am caught in the cross fire of family politicks....*nods head* no no no...I dont liek it at all mayn...nah anh...

LG said...

Eiya... i dont envy u at all, but at least u ve learnt a lesson

Nice Anon said...

don't like visiting people period! Unless we are cool like that even then. I tried it once and i ran after a couple of months. Hang in there

yankeenaijachick said...

I can't even stand majority of my relatives much less staying with them. I rather stay with a girlfriend or friend. Just hang in there and make ur way no pass madam way. If not katakata go burst for real. Stay blessed this Sunday.

WeirdGurl said...

left their house a few days ago and went to a nearby city to visit a friend. i was kinda quiet and spent most of my time on my laptop. i'm not really a quiet person but i did that cos i was just been careful. they told my mom that i was quiet & spent most of my time on my laptop & i wasnt really sociable. i was like if u make noise, wahala, if u dont, wahala too. lol.

geisha said...

i completely get this. i'm also staying with people that are supposed to be family friends, but i've neva met them before.
it's hard!
at least yours is temporary... mine seems to be stretching out longer than planned.