Sunday, 16 May 2010
Married? Then stick to your spouse! 2
I finally got home, and kept thinking about hot guy. He told me his name(both first and last), I told him my first name. I searched for him on both facebook, twitter and google but seemed a good number of people had that same first and last name.
I remembered I had called my housemate with his phone, and took my housemate's phone to get his number. lol. Crazy I know. I sent him a text thanking him for his help.(An opportunity for contact. lol). In one of his texts, he wrote he was still here if I needed anything. hmmm. I didn't tell him my last name, so it seems he went on facebook and searched for everyone with my first name, cos he sent me a message asking if I was the one (my profile picture was set to private so only my friends could see it). I replied and he added me. After accepting his friend request I checked out his profile, and low and behold I found out hot guy was married! I was crushed. Aarrgghh! I wish I found him first. lol! Lucky lady. But o well, I'll get over it. I wondered why he showed interest, and even wanted to meet up. If I like someone or if I'm attracted to someone, once I find out they're married or even have a gf I lose interest. Cos I have no business liking someone else's husband or bf.
So every contact hot guy made with me, I made it as plain and friendly as possible.
On his facebook page, hot guy was always writing on his statuses about how much he loves his wife and all. Recently I was online on facebook chat(which is a rarity for me), and hot guy started chatting with me. It started as a normal conversation and he diverted and said I was very beautiful, and that he always wanted to say something/do something to me. I had to ask him if he was drunk! Men are something else! When I first met hot guy, I was attracted to him and thought he was goodlooking, but I didn't go thinking nasty thoughts of him, while he actually thought nasty thoughts and was suggesting acting it out. Geez! and he's claiming he loves his wife and blah blah. Men. smh. He said he has feelings for me and he knows I do too. I told him the fact he is married changes everything, and he's like it doesn't change how we feel and that the way we met(which was very random)/our meeting was God's plan. I'm like God's plan does not include me having an affair with a married man! People use the whole its God's plan line, but using it in this situation was ludicrous! I've made a mental note to self to avoid hot guy and never to accept any free car rides from him. This validates the fact that men are highly unfaithful beings. To their friends he acts like they're the perfect couple and all lovey dovey, and yet hitting on me (and possibly other women) without his wife's knowledge. If he loves his wife like he proclaims he does, then he shouldn't be having feelings for other women. So if I was that kind of girl and gave in, thats how their marriage will just get ruined. I'm not that type. In this new age of technology, men find it easier to cheat. All it takes is one message or chat to set up a meeting. Its scary. It makes me wonder how many percent of men are faithful. I know its a few, I hope I marry one of the few faithful type. God save us from unfaithful men and cheats. Hot guy is married, he should stick to his spouse. N.B: The pictures are of hot guy. I wiped out his face though.